Are you always in firefighting mode, avoiding disaster? Arguably, this is only one of five modes of living. What might the other four be?
Tag: Love
Help me, don’t help me: how to help people without them knowing
We all like to help others, but sometimes others don’t want to be helped. There are several reasons for this. Perhaps they have fragile dignity,
Falling in love versus falling into attachment
There is a golden rule, some say, about the feeling of love. If it feels painful and difficult, it is not love, but attachment. And
Postponing things
We live in an age which has to do everything now. We want everything now, and so we pollute the Earth in order to gain
Relationships (capital R) versus relationships (small r)
Many people talk about Relationships, as though certain interactions were in a special category. What they usually mean is that they have decided that one
Relationship snakes and ladders
We all want relationships to work. Certain things seem to improve them, and certain things seem to make them worse. Of course there are times
