We can get stuck in blaming and frustration, until we realise that it gets us nowhere. Eventually, we experience a shift in consciousness.
Tag: Blaming
Happiness: an individual responsibility?
It is natural to want to be happy. If we find ourselves unhappy, we have a choice. Do we get angry and blame others? Or do we take responsibility for our own happiness?
When we make it someone else’s fault
We all have a tendency to blame others and position ourselves defensively. By changing this habit, we can make ourselves healthier and happier.
Where do you put the blame for your problems?
When we blame chaotically, we are very disturbed by others. When we organise our response, things become clearer and more peaceful.
Blame versus accountability
Blaming perpetuates a cycle of anger and irritability. In contrast, we can increase our own happiness if we can stop finding fault with others, and instead encourage a climate of accountability.
Social, planetary and universal mindfulness
It is natural that we are self-defensive, seeking to blame others. But it is also counterproductive. By learning to ‘be with’ peacefully, we can break the cycle of suffering, starting with ourselves.
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