Many of our relational triggers can be tracked back to three basic needs we have.
Tag: Arguments
Recovering from relationship ruptures
When we argue, we are vulnerable. We need to take time to heal ourselves before we re-engage.
What is assertiveness?
Assertiveness is very much a question of a right relationship with the self.
To be happy, admit that you don’t know
When we argue, we try to make ourselves right and the other person wrong. But, instead of helping, this urge to polarise actually perpetuates conflict. True happiness lies in being happy to be neither right nor wrong, to just be.
Handling arguments
Arguments escalate because we cannot wait to get our words in. Simple accepting that the other has spoken is a powerful tool for peace.
Managing arguments
Arguments happen when behaviour, actions or perspectives diverge. The divergence causes conflict, and the conflict affects the communication. One of the best ways to start
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