Agreeable people can suffer from too much pleasing of others, and too little of what brings them joy.

Agreeable people can suffer from too much pleasing of others, and too little of what brings them joy.
When others won’t speak to us, we should remember that the ‘won’t’ is in our heads, not theirs.
Others are just like us. They want to be happy, just as we do.
If we lack self-esteem, we may not feel able to influence others. However, starting with small situations, it is possible to build our confidence.
Others may not tell us we’re bossy. But if we discover we are seen that way, there are a few things we can to to reduce our bossy behaviour.
We will always have slightly different priorities from our friends. But we can always show an interest.