Can we overcome our own neediness? Can we escape our fear of rejection and failure? Absolutely. But it may take a change of thinking.
Why do we sometimes get in the way of our own good intentions? Self-sabotage is hard to spot, because it can be unconscious.
From the moment we were born, we have needed a certain amount of order in our lives. We can train ourselves to tolerate some chaos, but also to be wise enough to make good choices.
Feeling busy? You may be suffering from civilisation, which has invented for you a time-and-calendar construct that makes you feel guilty if you are not ‘productive’.
Making personal change is hard. It can be easier if we follow two or three key principles.
Are you frustrated with finances, career, relationships, bodily appearance? These are the ‘fabulous four’ frustrations that preoccupy the modern mind. It doesn’t have to be like that.