Much anxiety can be understood as intense fluctuation between engagement and avoidance.
Handling arguments
Arguments escalate because we cannot wait to get our words in. Simple accepting that the other has spoken is a powerful tool for peace.
Self-sabotage: why do we do it?
Why do we sometimes get in the way of our own good intentions? Self-sabotage is hard to spot, because it can be unconscious.
Have you got blame-itis?
Do you make others responsible for you, instead of being responsible for yourself?
Recovering from anxiety and depression
When you’re experiencing anxiety or depression, it can seem impossible to escape. Here are a few tips for rebalancing yourself.
Managing chaos in your life
From the moment we were born, we have needed a certain amount of order in our lives. We can train ourselves to tolerate some chaos, but also to be wise enough to make good choices.
